What Does It Mean to Live Authentically?

A psychological exploration of authenticity, identity and the roles women inhabit across their lives.

A Research Study on Women and the Power of Living Aligned

THE AUTHENTICITY RESEARCH
Original qualitative research conducted 2022–2023
Diana Rogerson | MSc Psychology

About the Study

This qualitative research began with a deceptively simple question:

What does it mean to live authentically — and how do we know when we are?

Through in-depth interviews with 29 women between the ages of 30 and 60, I explored how women understand and experience authenticity across different stages of adult life. Rather than treating authenticity as a fixed personality trait or an ideal to be achieved, the research listened closely to women's lived experiences — the choices they make, the roles they inhabit, the expectations they navigate and the moments that lead them to question who they have learned to be.

The primary analysis focused particularly on the experiences of women in their forties, a period in which questions of identity, relationships, work, responsibility and personal agency often became especially visible within the participants' accounts. What emerged was a much more complex picture of authenticity: not simply "being yourself", but an ongoing relationship between who we have been shaped to become and who we consciously choose to be.

The research has since become an important foundation for my continuing work on authenticity, self-authorship and human development, and informs both the philosophy behind The Incharge Way and and a wider body of writing and research currently in development.

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Meet the researcher

The research was conducted by Diana Rogerson as part of her postgraduate study in psychology and has since become one of the foundations of the Incharge approach to authenticity, self-authorship and human development.

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themes We Discovered

But the themes were only the beginning.

As I continued working with the women's accounts — particularly those of women navigating midlife — a deeper pattern began to emerge. The research suggested that authenticity may be less about discovering a fixed "true self" and more about how we negotiate the forces that have shaped us, discern what genuinely belongs to us and increasingly become authors of our own lives.

This developing body of work now informs my writing, research and the philosophy behind The Incharge Way.

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IN THEIR OWN WORDS

Behind every concept is a lived experience.

  • “One of my greatest influence has been my mother, who I have seen.
    Fighting with the society … making her firm decisions … I have seen my parents, my mother or father taking strong decisions because they believed in what they want to do, so that could have been my first influence of doing what you really want to do, doesn't matter what society says.”

  • “So, what's really interesting that I've never realised about myself until I spoke to you just now, is that I'm probably least authentic when I'm with my best friends. Which is weird, isn't it? But I think that's because often I've known them for so long, we've grown up together, but they're somewhere different in their lives than I am.”

  • “I think that the confidence I got as I became more senior in my career, sort of gave me the confidence to sort of say to myself, well, if people are giving you these jobs, if they're not giving them to you because they like you, they're giving you the job because they think you can do it and your experience says they can. And so, as basic as just having a bit of confidence to think, well, maybe if I know what I'm talking about in my career, maybe I know what I'm talking about in other areas of my life.”

  • “I had … a persona that grew … out of the cultural expectations, of my familiar expectations. And I thought that that was me. I didn't know that it wasn't me. So, I felt that I'm being authentic to myself.

    But I know now that I wasn't ... I had a lot of … suffering because of it, but I didn't even know what was the cause of it; and I developed anxiety and depression.”

Share Your Experience

of Authenticity

This study may be complete — but the conversation is just beginning.
Every woman has her own definition of what authenticity feels like. I'd love to hear from you:

  • What does authenticity mean to you?

  • What roles are you letting go of — or reclaiming?

  • What keeps you aligned with your truth?

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